I have this constant internal battle going on in between me: sex/cuddle or work/growth?It seems like anytime someone spends the night my next day of work is slaughtered. It's not personal to any one person, it just is what it is.So I don't want to be that guy that invites someone to come over, then kicks them out. I love my post-sex cuddles. But I also don't want to be celibate. The only option that worked was fucking mid-day or evening time, but my now-girlfriend doesn't like that she doesn't get to spend the night then (and I don't like making an excuse to suddenly be busy without her come evening time, it just doesn't feel right).My current goals are to grow my business and wake up earlier, and it just feels so impossible. It seems my girlfriend kills my productivity. We stay up later, sleep in (Oh I feel so good cuddling), the sleep quality seems less (though feels better, strangely), and then the morning/afternoon is wayyyy slower with her.I don't know what to do guys. I love sex. I love my girl. But this Monday and Tuesday are just so unproductive compared to last Thursday/Friday where she didn't stay the night. It's 4:30pm already and I got nothing done, and I'm struggling to focus (she also sat next to me while I did computer work and even though she didn't bother me she put her arm on me which I think relaxed me and made it impossible to work with the same passion as when I'm totally isolated).How can one balance the fun/love of sex/companionship with the need/ambition of growing a business?(I'm self-employed with no immediate urgency, hence why it's doubly easy to get delayed and lazy when she stays the night) see hubwealthy.com/wealthy
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